Walk a Mile in My Shoes
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An article on the BBC this weekend caught my eye regarding one American woman’s feeling that she is not liked here due to the fact that she is American : Anti-Americanism ‘feels like racism’. Now while I am neither proud of my countrymen who behave thus nor justifying such behaviour I really think Ms Cox should stop whining for a moment and take a little look around her at a world fractured by resentments and bigotry of every shape and form. How does she think the average Muslim feels right now since her own government managed to conflate a terrorist attack by nineteen terrorists into a clash of civilisations? How does she think the average Hispanic feels as American politicians rail against the immigrant threat? She is a citizen of the wealthiest and most powerful country in the world but yet she expects everyone to love her too? Wake up dear. That wealth, power and opportunity that you enjoy comes at a price and its high time you and your fellow Americans woke-up to the burden that such position entails and that includes not being loved by everyone. Its a fact of life which millions, if not billions have to live with every day.
Even within our sceptred Isle there are regional and social divisions which guarantee hostility for the unfavoured. Only recently there was a piece on Harry’s Place ostensibly complaining about the ridicule foisted upon the hapless Chav and perhaps for a moment I would have agreed to some degree but rather disappointingly the call to arms was nothing more than a call to get back to ripping into The Posh. The hypocrisy of which was lost on the leftist muck-slingers who seem determined to defend the indefensible. Some sense was injected with this comment :
Nothing about mocking chavs makes me uncomfortable. On the contrary, I revel in it, its the revenge of the decent majority of ordinary people on some of the very worst aspects of modern Britain - the total lack of anything resembling culture, wit, manners, respect for others, and any sense of how to behave in a social space. In essence, the chav is the classic lumpenprole, Thatcher’s children, and fascism’s recruiting ground. This has nothing at all to do with being anti-working class; the chav represents the complete antithesis of what the old working class used to be about, with some sense of social solidarity, a trade union consciousness, taking responsibility for oneself and ones family, self-sufficiency, hard graft etc. As you say, only middle-class guardian readers worry that chav mockery - an entirely healthy reaction in the era of Big Brother and other varieties of mass cretinism - is terribly un-PC and anti-working class, revealing a typical deep snobbery against the concept of a real, mature, hard working, grown up and responsible working class. Because, when it comes right down to it, they never have to sit on a bus with the foul mouthed morons. Mock on. - Jack40
The truth is Ms Cox, there is only one way to be loved by everyone and that is to be so achingly average that there is nothing about you to envy or criticise in any way, so be careful what you wish for.











I do sometime wonder whether those who report such abuse have something in their own attitudes that annoys or maybe they just take ribbing too seriously? There is an English bloke in the replies with the common complaint about hostility to the English in Scotland. I lived there for two years and never encountered any.
I agree; one’s personality influences the likelihood of receiving abuse. I don’t announce where I’m from and I am generally a quiet talker by nature. I am a US citizen and have spent time in England, France, Andorra, Denmark, Canada, Mexico, Fiji, Western Samoa, American Samoa, Tonga, New Guinea and Australia and only received abuse for being American once: a young gentleman in American Samoa made some unkind gestures and comments as I drove past him in a poorly-maintained rental car. I certainly didn’t take it personally.
It is no surprise to me when non-Americans say they hate Americans if all they notice are the annoying, brash, bellowing, clueless American tourists in T-shirts and shorts. I have the “privilege” of being embarrassed by them as well.
To those who abuse any American due to the current US political situation, I wish to point out that (a) an actual minority of Americans voted for Bush, and (b) if it is unfair to hate a person for the actions of a relative, how can it be fair to hate a person for the actions of an idiot politician?
It is unfair that the international traveller should be held accountable for the foreign policy of their homeland but in all honesty I think one has to face the fact that it is inevitable sooner or later and how you deal with this challenge is a measure of your own diplomatic skill. The easy route is simply to say you don’t like your leader/government either but if you gauge the company you are in as reasonable there is always the even-handed hate this/like that rhetoric. As you say, a recognition of local culture and achievements balanced with some humility will get you a long way in cementing positive relations and national pride if not at the expense of others is often respected.